Sunday 17 January 2010

Marriage Blessing..








Date: 17th January 2010
Venue: Sola, Kobe

A bright and sunny Sunday.
Dressed in my traditional purple Batik Kebaya.
Sola was nice and lovely.
The bride in her beautiful white gown.
The bridegroom in his own casual style.
Entrusted as the "ring girl", I walked the aisle.
Tears dropped, cherishing the meaningful moment.
A couple united, witnessed by the "Sola".


This is the first time I attended a Japanese friends wedding, happily accepted the role bringing the "knot ring" but I realized then it wasn't as easy as it sounds. Everything was lovely, and they looked happy, faces full of hope and faith as they're actually papa and mama to be. Wishing them a future full of happiness, wealth and good health... Lastly, a wedding poem to share;


In the marriage the little things are the big things.
It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say 'I love you' at least once a day.
It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.
It is standing together and facing the world.....
It is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family.
It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.
It is not only marrying the right person.
It is being the right partner.


"You don't marry someone you can live with - you marry the person who you cannot live without."...

Monday 4 January 2010

Year 2010


"We will open the book. Its pages are blank. We are going to put words on them ourselves. The book is called "Opportunity" and its first chapter is New Year's Day"..Edith Lovejoy Pierce

New Year approached, not considering whether we're prepared to welcome it or not.
1.Appreciate (not regret) past mistakes,
2.Make new resolutions,
3.Start afresh about things.
These should have made a perfect opening for my new year.
One resolution I've made which is kind of simple but I'll always try to keep: is to
rise above little things.

2010:

My 3rd yr as a medical professional,
My 1st yr in radiation oncology,
My 1st yr away from my university hospital,
his 1st yr as a postgraduate student,
These life's challenges, they're not supposed to paralyze us, they're to help discover ourselves. Consider it an opportunity to build our faith, inner strength and courage...

今年も張り切って頑張ろうね!
Welcoming Year 2010! and my new Diana Blog!
p/s: first pic taken with Diana F+ Edelweiss